Breakup series.. Part - 3 / break up ke baad hume kaisa feel hotta hai | break up advice in hindi

Hello dosto, aap kaise ho. break up advice in hindi ki aaj ki is post me hum jaanenge ki break up ke baad hume kaisa feel hotta hai. Dosto pichle do parts me hamne ye parha ki Breakup kya hotta hai.. And Breakup kyon hotta hai. Dosto breakup karna koyi aasaan baat nahi hai. break up ke baad insaan puri trh se toot jaata hai.... Uska dil Or dimaag kaam karna band kar detaa hai .

relationship break up ke baad hume kaisa feel hotta hai ye is baat pe bhi depend karta hai ki hmaara breakup kyon hua hai. Kyonki jaisa ki hamne Breakup kyon hotta hai ke article me parha ki... Breakup honne ke bahut saare reasons hai. Dosto kuch break up to normal hotte hai, but kuch breakup bahut jaada complicated hotte hai. . Jaise ki -

•    Mere friend ke liye mujhse breakup kar liya,
•    Apna matlab purra honne par ya mujhe use karke mujhe chord diya.

Isliye Breakup ke baad hume bhut saari feelings aati hai .. Jaise ki :-

• Mere saath hi aisa kyon hua
• Apne baare me nagative sochna
• Badla lene ka sochna
• Apne partner ka bura sochna ki uske saath kuch bura ho jaaye.. But saath me uska acha bhi sochna ki jaada bura na ho ... Confused thinking
• Apne past ko recreate karte rehna
• Pichli baato ko baar baar , soch soch kar rote rehna
• Ye soch soch kar dukhi honna ki usne ab kissi or ke saath relation bna liya hoga
• Use  baar - baar social sites pe check karne ka sochna
• Use jealous feel karaane kaa sochna
• Baar baar ye sochna ki.. Wo jarur waapis aayega .. Wo jarur mujhe call ya msg karega Or mujhse sorry bolega.
• Kabhi bhi usse baat nahi karunga .... puri trah se Ignore karna.

1. Mere saath hi aisa kyon hua.....

Dosto jub bhi kissi ka Breakup hotta hai to use aisa hi feel hotta hai ki mere saath hi aisa kyon hua ya GOD mere saath hi aisa kyon karta hai. Kyonki jiske saath hamne hamesha saath rehne ka socha tha wo ek dum se hume chord ke chala jaaye to koyi bhi pareshaan ho hi jaayega. Or dosto koyi bhi apne baare me ye nahi sochta ki uske saath kuch bura ho. But jub Hum kissi se break up karte hai to yhi feeling sabse pehle aati hai ki mere saath hi aisa kyon hua.

2. Apne baare me nagative sochna..... 

Dosto break up ka.... humaari soch me bhut gehra asar partha hai. Jub hume koyi chord ke chala jaata hai to hum apne baare me bahut galat - galat baate sochne lagte hai. Hum ye sochne lagte hai ki humaare me hi kuch kami hoggi .... tabhi wo hume chord ke chala gaya. phir yahi soch hamaare confidence ko low kar deti hai. Jiska sidha - sidha asar hamaare or relations ke upar bhi parhta hai.

3. Badla lene ka sochna.....

90 % cases me breakup ke baad... apne partner se badla lene ki feeling to aati hi hai.. Or ye feeling jaadatar boys me hi aati hai. Jub unka breakup hotta hai to wo sochte hai ki wo mujhse breakup  ya aisa kaise kar sakti hai .. Mai ab usko chorhunga nahi or usse badla le kar rahunga.

          Blackmail karne ka sochna -  Or us badle ki feeling me wo sochta hai ki mai apne partner ki private photos ya videos internet pe viral kar dunga.. Tub use pata chalega ki usne mere saath thick nahi kiya. Jo ki sabse bekaar or ghatiyaa feeling hai. Kyonki kissi ki life barbaad kar dena sirf apne ko acha feel karwaane ke liye.. Na to as a human being sahi  hai or na hi ye kaanuni roop se sahi hai...iske baare me hum  next part me   detail me baat karenge  but Dosto Ye ek illegal kaam hai or aisa crime karne waalo ko punish karneke liye law bane hai, . 

4. Apne partner ka bura sochna ki uske saath kuch bura ho jaaye.. But saath me uska acha bhi sochna ki jaada bura na ho..Confused thinking.....

Ji haan dosto, jub humaare saath koyi breakup kar ke jaata hai to humaare andar aisy confused feelings bhi aati hai. Ki kabhi to hum ye sochte hai ki bhagwaan... Wo kabhi bhi khoosh na rahe. Aaj usne mujhe chorda hai kal koyi or jub use chord kar jaayega tab use pata chlega apni galti ka but phir kabhi hum ye sochte hai ki wo jhan bhi rahe , Jiske saath bhi rahe bhagwaan use khoosh rakhe.

5. Apne past ko recreate karte rehna......

 Ki agr mai aisa bolta ya aisa karta to.. Aisa hotta . Waisa hotta . Dosto Breakup ke baad akele rehne ka hi man karta hai . Kissi se baat karne ka man nahi karta. Hum bus apni imagination me khoye rehte hai ki . Kaash maine aisa na kiya hotta.. Kaash maine ye na bola hotta.... Kaash usne aisa na kiya hotta ya aisa na bola hota... Bus hum kaash - kash karte rehte hai. Ki kaash mere saath aisa na hua hotta to aaj mai khoosh rehta.

6.  Pichli baato ko baar baar , soch soch kar rote rehna.....

Breakup ke baad pichli saari baate yaad aati rehti hai ki ....  Hum saath me kya kiyaa karte they .. Kahaan jaaya karte they or hum log ek dusre se kitna pyaar kiya karte they. But jub ek dum se breakup ho jaata hai to kuch din tak to is baat ka believe hi nahi kar paate ki.. Humaara Breakup hua hai or phir pichli baate yaad kar ke rotte rehte hai.

7. Ye soch soch kar dukhi honna ki usne ab kissi or ke saath relation bna liya hoga.....

Humaare andar.. Aisy feelings bhi aati rehti hai ki shaayad usne ab kissi or se relation bana liyaa hogga or wo kissi or ke saath enjoy kar raha hogaa / rahi hoggi. Hum apni hi imagination me jeete rehte hai or dukhi hotte rehte hai.

8. Use baar - baar social sites pe check Karna.....

Aaj kal jamaana bahut tez ho gyaa hai... Jadaatar log social sites par apna status update karte rehte hai and apni feelings share karte rehte hai. Isliye Hum ye bhi sochte rehte hai ki usne social site me kya daala hogga.. Apna status single kar diya hogga. Ya usne apni koyi photo daali hoggi..... to hum baar baar social sites par uski profile check karte rehte hai. Waise to jaadatar sabhi breakup honne ke baad ek dusre ko block kar dete hai but phir bhi baar baar profile check karte rehte hai or dukhi hotte rehte hai.

9. jealous feel karaane kaa sochna.......

Phir hum ye sochte rehte hai ki social sites par apne ghoomne phirne ki ya kisi party ki pics share karke hum use jealous feel karwaayenge. Hume khoosh dekh kar use bahut dukh hogga.  Or jub aisy feelings aaati hai to hum lag jaate hai use jealous feel karwaane me.....andar se chaahe dukhi honge but phir bhi apni photos share karte hai or kayi log to shero shaayri.share karte hai taaki agar wo dekhe jissse breakup ho gya hai to wo dukhi ho...or jealous feel kare.

10. Baar baar ye sochna ki.. Wo jarur waapis aayega .. Wo jarur mujhe call ya msg karega Or mujhe sorry bolega.....

Jub hume koyi ek dum se chord ke jaata hai to kuch din tak to hume is baat pe believe hi nahi hotta ki usne hume chord diya. Or phir yahi sochte rehte hai ki humaara payaar jarur waapis aayega. Baar baar phone check karte rehna or uske caal or message ka wait karke pareshaan hotte rehna.

11. Kabhi bhi usse baat nahi karunga ... puri trah se ignore karna.....

Jaisa ki hume pata hai ki breakup honne ke bahut saare kaaran hotte hai jo ki hum Breakup series .  Part 2/Breakup kyon hotta hai me parh chukke hai.  Kuch breakup bhut jaada complicated hotte hai or hume itna jaada hurt karte hai ki hum uska face kabhi bhi dekhna nahi chaahte. Jaise ki agar usne hume cheat kiya hogga to usse milne ka ya usse baat karne ka bilkul bhi man nahi karega. Or hum usse bilkul cutoff ho jaate hai.. Number delete kar dete hai, sabhi social sites par use block kar dete hai or apne aap ko kissi or kaamo me busy rakhane ki koshish karte rehte hai. Jo ki bahut achi baat bhi hai...but Breakup ke baad hume kya karna chaahiye or kya nahi karna chaahiye ye hum ... Breakup series.. Ke next part me pura explain kar ke parhenge.

Ye bhi Parhe : -

• Breakup Series ... part 1 / Breakup kya hotta hai ?
• Breakup Series ....part2 / Breakup Kyon hotta hai ?

To dosto  aapko hamara ye article parh ke kaisa laga. break up advice in hindi ke is part me humne ye parha ki break up ke baad kaisa feel hota hai. or dosto maine ye feelings  waise to girls and boys dono ke liye likhne ki koshish ki hai ......but ho sakta hai breakup ke baad girls ke andar kuch or trah ki feelings bhi aati ho yaa in sub ke alawa bhi koyi bad feeling bach gayi ho. Agar aapko is se  related kuch bhi poochna ho ya share karna ho to comment jarur kare hum sab mil kar us problem ko solve karne ki koshish karenge or usse kuch sikhenge. taaki koyi bhi ye na soche ki sirf usi ke andar aisy bad feelings aati hai.... ye sub normal hai or aisy fellings sub ko aati hai. Bad feelings aana buri baat nahi hai but humara action kis trah ka hotta hai wo matter karta hai, usse humaare ache ya bure hone ka pata chalta hai. To dosto agar aapko ye article acha laga ho to social media sites pe bhi share jarur kare. Mai jald hi Breakup series ka next part aapke liye le kar aaunga. thanks ..Have a nice life and be inspired.