Hello dosto, aap kaise ho.... break up advice in hindi ki aaj ki is post me hum jaanege ki break up ke baad kya nahi karna chaahiye. Dosto break up series ka ye part - 4 hai. Abhi tak humne parha ki Breakup kya hotta hai, phir humne parha ki ... Breakup kyon hotta hai... And phir tisre part me humne parha ki breakup ke baad hume kaisy kaisy bad feelings aati hai.
Aaj ke is article me hum parhenge ki break up ke baad kya na kare. Dosto jaisa ki aap log jaante hi ho ki breakup ke baad hum poori trah se toot jaate hai. Us time hume kuch bhi acha nahi lagta. Kissi se bhi baat karna acha nahi lagta. Bus hum puraani baato ko yaad kar kar ke rotte rehte hai ya dukhi hotte rehte hai. Ye sub normal hai, or sabhi ke saath aisa hotta hai.but agar koyi kayi kayi mahino tak bus isi baat ka afsos karta rahe or yhi soch kar dukhi hotte rahe ki wo..mujhe chord kar kyon gya....to wo sahi nahi hai.
isliye dosto, mujhe aisa lagta hai ki hume break up ke pehle din se hi ye koshish nahi karni chaahiye ki mai use bhool jaau kyonki phir wo or jaada yaad aayega. isliye breakup ke 3 - 4 din tak aapko kuch bhi follow karne ki jarurat nahi hai. apko jitna dukhi honna hai ...jitna ronna hai ... 3 - 4 din tak sub kuch kar le . phir jub kuch din baad aap thodda thick feel karo tub aap neeche diye points ko follow karne ki koshish kar sakte ho. jaise ki : -
Jub bhi humaara kissi se break up hotta hai, tub humaara mun karta hai ki hummaare saath koyi baat na kare.. Hume koyi disturb na kare. Phir akele room me baithkar... Puraani baate soch - soch kar rotte rehte hai. Dosto jub bhi hum ek jgah akele baithe hotte hai ... Tub humaari body to ek jgah hotti hai but humaara mun(mind) jo ki bilkul bhi shaant nahi rehta wo chaaro truf dodda rehta hai. Kabhi puraani baato ko yaad karta rehta hai jo bhi acha ya bura hua humaare saath ya imagine karta rehta hai ki kaash aisa hotta mere saath or wo chord ke na jaata. Isliye dosto jitna ho sake... Akele rehna avoide kare.
Breakup ke baad humaare mind me bahut saare thoughts chalte rehte hai...jo ki jaadatar nagative hi hotte hai. Hum puraani baato ko yaad karte rehte hai ki hum kaise saath me time spend kiya karte they ya hum dono ek dusre se kitna payaar karte they. Kuch thoughts to thick hai and normal bhi hai jo ki real me hui hai but kuch thoughts aisy hoti hai jo ki sach nahi hotti but phir bhi hum use soch soch kar dukhi hotte rehte hai. Jaise ki -
Dosto, jaisa ki hum sub jaante hi hai ki ab technology bahut jaada barh gayi hai. Or ab sub ke pas smartphone hotte hai. Or sabko shock hotta hai apni pics lene ka ya video banaane ka jinme jaadatar private bhi ho sakti hai...jo ki hum apne partner ke alaawa kissi ke saath bhi share nahi kar sakte.
But kuch log is baat ka galat faayda uthaate hai. Agar unka kissi se breakup ho gya hai or unke pas unke partner ki koyi private photo ya video hai to wo gusse me aakar apne partner ko Blackmail karte rehte hai ki agar tumne mujhe chorda ya kuch bhi condition rakh sakte hai wo log.. To tumhaari ye pics or videos internet pe share kar denge. Jo ki bilkul galt baat hai........ Kissi ko blackmail karna ya kissi ki private photos ya videos internet pe daalna bahut badda crime hai. Or Aise insaan ko humaara kaanun bahut baddi sazza detaa hai. Isliye aisa karne ka to kabhi soche bhi nahi.kyonki kissi ki life barbaad karke aapko kuch bhi nahi milega or aap baad me khood bhi guilty feel karte rahoge.
Dosto ye human nature hai ki jub hum ye sochte hai ki hume kissi cheez ke baare me nahi sochna hai to hum....usi baare me sochte hai. Agar hum se aakar koyi bole ki hume bhagwaan ke baare me nahi sochna hai to hum bhagwaan ke baare me hi sochenge. Unke alag - alag roop ko yaad karte rahenge. Thick usi trah se agar hum ye sochenge ki hum apne partner ko, jisse breakup hua hai.. Use kabhi bhi yaad nahi karenge.. To hum na chaahte hue bhi use hi yaad karenge. Hum apni thoughts ko control to nahi kar sakte but haan hum apna dhyaan divert kar sakte or apna dhyaan kissi or kaam me lagaa sakte hai.
Jaisa ki hum daily news me parhte hi rehte hai ki. Kissi ne sirf isliye suicide kar liya kyonki uske partner ne use cheat kiya, ya uska partner use chorhkar kissi or ke saath chla gaya. Dosto, Shaayad hume ye baat thoddi ajeeb lage ki koyi Breakup ki wjah se suicide kaise kar sakta hai. But ye sach hai dosto.. Agar aap daily news parhte ho to kahi na kahi apko isse related news parhne ko ya dekhne ko mil hi jaayegi.
Isliye agar galti se bhi koyi suicide karne ka sochta hai to aisa na kare. Kyonki dosto ye end nahi hai. Life me or bhi bahut kuch hai karne ko. Aapko life partner to phir se mil jaayega. But..,,,,,, Jindgi na milegi dobaara...
Aaj ke is article me hum parhenge ki break up ke baad kya na kare. Dosto jaisa ki aap log jaante hi ho ki breakup ke baad hum poori trah se toot jaate hai. Us time hume kuch bhi acha nahi lagta. Kissi se bhi baat karna acha nahi lagta. Bus hum puraani baato ko yaad kar kar ke rotte rehte hai ya dukhi hotte rehte hai. Ye sub normal hai, or sabhi ke saath aisa hotta hai.but agar koyi kayi kayi mahino tak bus isi baat ka afsos karta rahe or yhi soch kar dukhi hotte rahe ki wo..mujhe chord kar kyon gya....to wo sahi nahi hai.
isliye dosto, mujhe aisa lagta hai ki hume break up ke pehle din se hi ye koshish nahi karni chaahiye ki mai use bhool jaau kyonki phir wo or jaada yaad aayega. isliye breakup ke 3 - 4 din tak aapko kuch bhi follow karne ki jarurat nahi hai. apko jitna dukhi honna hai ...jitna ronna hai ... 3 - 4 din tak sub kuch kar le . phir jub kuch din baad aap thodda thick feel karo tub aap neeche diye points ko follow karne ki koshish kar sakte ho. jaise ki : -
- Jitna ho sake koshish kare ki akele na rahe.
- Breakup ke baare me saare friends ko na bataaye.
- Faltu ki baate soch kar apne aap ko dukhi na kare
- Blackmail karne ka na soche.
- Social sites pe dukhi messages share na kare.
- Ye na soche ki unse dhyaan kaise hutaaye.
- Suicide ke baare me na soche.
- Unse contact ya baat karne ki koshish na kare
1. Jitna ho sake koshish kare ki akele na rahe......
Jub bhi humaara kissi se break up hotta hai, tub humaara mun karta hai ki hummaare saath koyi baat na kare.. Hume koyi disturb na kare. Phir akele room me baithkar... Puraani baate soch - soch kar rotte rehte hai. Dosto jub bhi hum ek jgah akele baithe hotte hai ... Tub humaari body to ek jgah hotti hai but humaara mun(mind) jo ki bilkul bhi shaant nahi rehta wo chaaro truf dodda rehta hai. Kabhi puraani baato ko yaad karta rehta hai jo bhi acha ya bura hua humaare saath ya imagine karta rehta hai ki kaash aisa hotta mere saath or wo chord ke na jaata. Isliye dosto jitna ho sake... Akele rehna avoide kare.
2. Breakup ke baare me saare friends ko na bataaye......
Dosto, break up ke baad hum bahut dukhi ho jaate hai. Or humaara dil karta hai ki hum sabko jaake ye bataaye ki humaara breakup isliye hua kyonki uski galti thi. Or kuch log apne breakup ke gusse ko shaant karne ke liye apne sabhi friends ya relatives ke pas jaa kar apne breakup ka bata dete hai or apne partner ki buraayi dil khol kar karte hai. Unke andar jitna bhi gussa hotta hai wo sabke pas uski buraayi kar ke utaar dete hai. Unhe aisa lagta hai ki hum jitni unki buraayi karenge utna acha feel karenge.
But aisa nahi honna chaahiye. Dosto sub ka koyi na koyi best friend hotta hai. Jis par hum aankh band kar ke bhi bharosaa kar sakte hai......ki agar hum unhe kuch bataayenge to wo uska missuse nahi karenge. Agar apne breakup ka aap sub ko jaa ke bataaoge or sub ke pas apne partner ki buraayi karte rahoge to ho sakta hai ki unme se koyi aapko kuch aise baate bole de jo aapko achi na lage. Ya ho sakta hai ki aap apne partner se bhut jaada nafrat na karte ho but friends ki baate.. Aag me ghee ka kaam kare... Or aap use or jaada hate karne lago. Isliye dosto apne breakup ke baare me sirf apne best friend ko hi bataaye, acha bura jo bhi ho... Sirf (Only) Apne best friend se hi share kare.
3. Faaltu ki baate soch kar apne aap ko dukhi na kare......
- wo ab kissi or ke saath ghoom raha hogga ya ghoom rahi hoggi.
- shaayad mai jaada smart ya good looking nahi hu, isiliye usne mujhe chord diya.
- uska to pata ni kitno ke saath pehle se hi affair hogga.
Isliye koshish kare.. Jitna ho sake utna kam.. aise vichaar dimaag me aane de or apne aap ko kissi or kaam me busy rakhe.
4. Blackmail Karne ka na soche.....
Dosto, jaisa ki hum sub jaante hi hai ki ab technology bahut jaada barh gayi hai. Or ab sub ke pas smartphone hotte hai. Or sabko shock hotta hai apni pics lene ka ya video banaane ka jinme jaadatar private bhi ho sakti hai...jo ki hum apne partner ke alaawa kissi ke saath bhi share nahi kar sakte.
But kuch log is baat ka galat faayda uthaate hai. Agar unka kissi se breakup ho gya hai or unke pas unke partner ki koyi private photo ya video hai to wo gusse me aakar apne partner ko Blackmail karte rehte hai ki agar tumne mujhe chorda ya kuch bhi condition rakh sakte hai wo log.. To tumhaari ye pics or videos internet pe share kar denge. Jo ki bilkul galt baat hai........ Kissi ko blackmail karna ya kissi ki private photos ya videos internet pe daalna bahut badda crime hai. Or Aise insaan ko humaara kaanun bahut baddi sazza detaa hai. Isliye aisa karne ka to kabhi soche bhi nahi.kyonki kissi ki life barbaad karke aapko kuch bhi nahi milega or aap baad me khood bhi guilty feel karte rahoge.
5. Social sites pe dukhi Messages share na kare.....
Kuch log sochte hai ki agar social sites par wo dukhi messages share karenge to unka partner... Jiske saath breakup hua hai wo bhut dukhi ho jaayega or shaayad wo dobaara hume mil jaaye. Or yahi soch ke kuch log dukhi shero - shaayri share karte rehte hai ya phir dukhi status update karte rehte hai. .. Jo ki nahi karna chaahiye. Aisa karne se aap apne partner ko ye bata rahe ho ki aap kitne kamzor ho or unhe ye ehsaas hogga ki aap unko abhi bhi yaad karte rehte ho unke bina jee nahi sakte. Isliye wo aapke pas nahi balki door chale jaayenge bina kissi dukh ke.
6. Ye na soche ki unse dhyaan kaise hataaye.....
Dosto ye human nature hai ki jub hum ye sochte hai ki hume kissi cheez ke baare me nahi sochna hai to hum....usi baare me sochte hai. Agar hum se aakar koyi bole ki hume bhagwaan ke baare me nahi sochna hai to hum bhagwaan ke baare me hi sochenge. Unke alag - alag roop ko yaad karte rahenge. Thick usi trah se agar hum ye sochenge ki hum apne partner ko, jisse breakup hua hai.. Use kabhi bhi yaad nahi karenge.. To hum na chaahte hue bhi use hi yaad karenge. Hum apni thoughts ko control to nahi kar sakte but haan hum apna dhyaan divert kar sakte or apna dhyaan kissi or kaam me lagaa sakte hai.
7. Suicide ke baare me na soche.....
Isliye agar galti se bhi koyi suicide karne ka sochta hai to aisa na kare. Kyonki dosto ye end nahi hai. Life me or bhi bahut kuch hai karne ko. Aapko life partner to phir se mil jaayega. But..,,,,,, Jindgi na milegi dobaara...
8. Unse contact ya baat karne ki koshish na kare.....
Ho sakta hai ki breakup ke baad aapka mun unse baat karne ka kare jo ki normal hai. but aapko koshish karni hai ki aap unse baat na kare .- No calling
- No Chatting
- Or na hi apne kissi friend ke through unse baat karne ki koshish kare.
Shaayad kuch din tak aapke liye ye karna mushkil ho but dheere dheere aap samjh jaaoge ki aapne ye sub karke bahut acha kiya.
Ye bhi Parhe : -
- Breakup Series ... part 1 / Breakup kya hotta hai ?
- Breakup Series ... part 2 / Breakup kyon hotta hai ?
- Breakup series.. Part - 3 / Breakup ke baad hame kaisa feel hotta hai....Bad feelings
thanks
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